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				FOR SCHOOLS</span><b><br>
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				play, learning and social life in the classroom</b></font><div class="Section1">
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					<b><i><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">
					The purposes of play</span></i></b></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Wingdings">�<span style="font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
					</span></span>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Joy</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Wingdings">�<span style="font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
					</span></span>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Try on 
					adult roles</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Wingdings">�<span style="font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
					</span></span>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">
					Explore the world</span></p>
					<p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent: -.25in; margin-top: 0; margin-bottom: 0">
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Wingdings">�<span style="font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
					</span></span>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">
					Explore one�s own capabilities</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Wingdings">�<span style="font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
					</span></span>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">
					Connect and reconnect</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Wingdings">�<span style="font:7.0pt &quot;Times New Roman&quot;">&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;
					</span></span>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Work 
					through hurts and upsets</span></p>
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					Learning and Play<br>
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					Children learn best when they are happy and relaxed, and 
					when they have a chance to play (both quietly and running 
					around actively) in between times when they are sitting 
					still or focusing on schoolwork.&nbsp; They learn best when they 
					direct the pace and content of their own learning as much as 
					possible, just like they play best when they can choose what 
					and how to play.</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Normal 
					social pain versus children at risk:<br>
					</span></i>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Low 
					risk children</span></b><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana"> 
					have at least one friend, and feel a sense of belonging to 
					group, but still experience the very real pain of having 
					secrets betrayed, liking someone more than that person likes 
					them, being teased occasionally, or wishing to have a higher 
					social status.</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">High 
					risk children</span></b><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana"> 
					can be <i>super-popular</i> kids (queen bees and alpha 
					males) who are dethroned and rejected, or who learn to 
					mistrust friendships; <i>rejected</i> children who are 
					actively disliked by most or all peers (they can become 
					aggressive and obnoxious or withdrawn, fearful and 
					depressed); <i>neglected</i> children who are neither liked 
					nor disliked by peers because they are unknown and keep a 
					low profile (risk of depression); or <i>controversial</i> 
					children who are actively liked and disliked, such as 
					bullies, class clowns, clique leaders, kids with ADHD (risk 
					of not fitting in as adults).</span></p>
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					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Fill 
					my cup!<br>
					</span></i></b>
					<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Every 
					child has a �cup� that needs to be filled--and repeatedly 
					refilled--with love affection, security and attention.&nbsp;
					Cups are filled by play, friendship, one-on-one time, love 
					and affection, connection, success, doing what they love, 
					doing what they choose, being known.<br>
					Cups are emptied by stress and strain, school (especially if 
					it doesn�t come easily), separation from loved ones, 
					loneliness and isolation, yelling and punishment, failing, 
					doing what they hate to do, doing what they are forced to 
					do.&nbsp;
					Children with low or empty cups often steal from other 
					people�s cups (grabbing toys or attention), misbehave, can�t 
					sit still, act aggressively, fight for refills, or withdraw.</span></p>
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					<b><i><span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">
					Adventures in Neuroscience</span></i></b></div>
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				<span style="font-size: 10.0pt; font-family: Verdana">Brain 
				development and learning happen best when multiple neural 
				pathways are activated together.&nbsp; Examples 
				of neural pathways are: memory, emotion, awareness, language, 
				attention, motor control, senses, affection, attachment, 
				aggression, sense of self&nbsp; The best 
				ways to activate multiple pathways are through play and 
				storytelling.</span><span style="font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Verdana"><br>&nbsp;</span></p></td>
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